The Department of Defense (DoD) has come up with a pretty good resource on a website called Military Homefront.
According to the DoD,
Military Homefront is the Department of Defense website for official Military Community and Family Policy (MC&FP) program information, policy and guidance designed to help troops and their families, leaders, and service providers. Whether you live the military lifestyle or support those who do, you’ll find what you need.
There is a section devoted to the military special needs community and the program that drives the benefits and service under the DoD’s Exceptional Family Member Program (EFMP). The link here, or the one on the right side of the page, is a shortcut to a tool provided called the EFMP Toolbox. Procedures on how to enroll, links and other useful information relating to the EFMP can be found here.